幸福的味道(愛桑)

「人，聰明才智其實差不多；重要的是，你能不能把你要作的目標， 化身成

        為你每天作它的習慣」 ~華倫‧巴非特                                  

                                                                           

                                                                           

                                                                           

                                                                           

                           別人的嘴巴，自己的道路                          

                                                                           

                                                                           

                          一隻可敬的青蛙.........                          

                                                                           

                                                                           

                         從前有一個故事是這樣說的：                        

                                                                           

                                                                           

 有一群青蛙在比賽誰能爬上最高的鐵塔，比賽開始了，一大群的青蛙看著那高大的鐵

                                塔異論紛紛：                               

                                                                           

                                                                           

   「這太難了！我們絕對爬不到塔頂的……」、「塔太高了！我們不可能成功……！」  

                                                                           

                                                                           

                         聽到這，有些青蛙便放棄了。                        

 看著那些仍然繼續爬的青蛙，大家又繼續說：「這太難了！沒有誰能爬上塔頂的……」

                                                                           

                                                                           

               就這樣你一言我一語，越來越多的青蛙退出了比賽。              

                                                                           

          但有一隻卻越爬越高，最後當其他的青蛙都無法再前進的時候，         

                                                                           

                                                                           

                        牠卻成為唯一到達頂點的選手。                       

                                                                           

          其他的青蛙都想知道，牠是怎麼做到的？於是便跑上前去詢問，         

                                                                           

                                                                           

                           才發現原來牠是個聾子！                          

                                                                           

                  朋友，你知道這個故事告訴你什麼嗎？是的，                 

                                                                           

                                                                           

                      嘴巴是別人的，但人生卻是自己的！                     

                                                                           

              雖然我們不必做個真正的聾子，但卻要永遠充滿希望、             

                                                                           

                                                                           

     樂觀和積極，不要只聽那些消極、悲觀的話，因為他們只會潑別人的冷水，    

                                                                           

                                                                           

  澆熄你的毅力。要將充滿力量的話，時時記在心裡，因為這將影響你往後的一生。 

                                                                           

               嘴巴長在別人嘴上，但自己卻要走屬於自己的道路。              

    在這個現實的社會裡，即便是遭受旁人無情的冷落、批評、否定，甚至排擠，   

                                                                           

                                                                           

                   也不能表示你就必須哀聲歎氣、自怨自悲，                  

                                                                           

                                                                           

                       唯一能否定你的人，只有你自己！                      

                                                                           

          因此，絕不能因為別人的幾句批評或冷言冷語，就要難過痛苦，         

                                                                           

                                                                           

                或者氣得跳腳，因為那只會對自己更沒信心而已。               

                                                                           

             有人的地方就有是非，只要有嘴巴，就會有意見和批評。            

        太在意別人的批評，不僅越活越痛苦，也會失去自己的看法和堅持，       

                                                                           

                                                                           

    到最後甚至連人生的意義，都將因此而游移、矇蔽，若果真走到這樣的地步，   

                                                                           

                                                                           

                   自我變成別人嘴巴的奴隸，豈不是很可悲？                  

                                                                           

           別人的嘴巴，永遠不能幫你走過人生的路，無論是康莊坦途，          

                                                                           

                                                                           

       還是崎嶇難行，都只能自己走，在那當中，如果得到的是鼓勵和支持，      

                                                                           

                                                                           

 就要永遠感恩在心，並同樣的去幫助別人；但是在那當中，若聽到的是批評和閒語，

                                                                           

                                                                           

     也不要太難過，學學那隻青蛙，? ?_的奮勇直前，走好自己人生的大道吧!     

                                                                           

                   生命因為珍惜而可貴，生活因為學習而豐富